The following list of ‘Five Essentials for a Lasting Relationship’ are taken from a booklet of that name that I give to every couple that I counsel or am about to marry. It is written by Pastor Ron Berrus of the Bible Baptist Church of Shiremanstown, PA who is a friend of mine.
Essential #1 Respect – demonstrated to your spouse through Listening. I Peter 2:17
Essential #2 Honesty – demonstrated to your spouse through Speaking. Ephesians 4:15
Essential #3 Commitment – demonstrated to your spouse through Serving. Micah 6:8
Essential #4 Acceptance – demonstrated to your spouse through Embracing. Romans 15:7
Essential #5 Forgiveness – demonstrated to your spouse through Praying. Ephesians 4:32
To read a full pdf copy of Pastor Berrus’ book click here: http://www.ronberrus.abwe.org/site_content/attachments/0000/1729/A_Booklet_Five_Essentials_Web_Ready_04_20_09.pdf